“The only way to have a friend is to become one.” – Ralph Waldo Emerson
Unless we establish friendliness within us we cannot evoke the same in others. The friendliness in us vibrates and activates similar vibrations in others. This applies even to the negative thoughts and vibrations. Anger, jealousy, greed, selfishness, hatred etc. evoke similar responses in others, naturally.
If we have to see God in others we have to become pure, become God. Thus Becoming is very important and essential. Meditation becomes.